This whole dating thing can be overwhelming. Out of all the men or women in the world, how are you supposed to pick the one perfect person? How can you ever know for sure? Here are a few questions to ask about a potential date or significant other.
Does he or she have a teachable spirit? “My child, don’t reject the Lord’s discipline, and don’t be upset when he corrects you” (Proverbs 3:11).
Does he or she live under God’s authority? “Everyone must submit to governing authorities. For all authority comes from God, and those in positions of authority have been placed there by God. So anyone who rebels against authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and they will be punished” (Romans 13:1-2).
Does he or she have a clear conscience? “Young people, it’s wonderful to be young! Enjoy every minute of it. Do everything you want to do; take it all in. But remember that you must give an account to God for everything you do” (Ecclesiastes 11:9).
Is he or she good with children? “Anyone who welcomes a little child like this on my behalf is welcoming me” (Matthew 18:5).
Is he or she financially free? “Give to everyone what you owe them: Pay your taxes and government fees to those who collect them, and give respect and honor to those who are in authority” (Romans 13:7).
Is he or she able to pray with and for you? “Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results” (James 5:16).
Ask these questions often, and don’t be afraid to have deep conversations. Relationships that establish communication as a value and priority are more likely to succeed when trouble comes.
Prayer: Give me discernment in all things – especially when choosing a life partner! Help me to look at each person’s heart, acknowledging their weaknesses and celebrating their triumphs. Help me look at others in the way you see them. Amen.
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